He's Back!

We're back to a three-ring circus. :-) Gerald came home from Haiti yesterday and our nest is no longer empty. As we feared, his flight out of Port au Prince on Wednesday was delayed which made it impossible to catch his connecting flight in Miami. American Airlines gave him a voucher to stay at a hotel and rebooked him for 8 a.m. Thursday morning. It was a hassle for him but they took care of him and we were actually happier that way than if he had landed on schedule at 12:20 a.m. Thursday. We got to sleep all night and drive to the airport in the daylight instead of at night. We never were city slickers and it's too late to start now. I hate to think what might have happened if we had tried to find the airport in the dark.

At any rate, Gerald enjoyed his visit to Haiti. Helping his cousin in the clinic was only one of the things he did. He helped with anything from wiring lights to installing programs on a computer, to hauling rocks. If you want to hear more about his experiences and see some pictures you can get it straight from the horse's mouth on his blog.

http://bubbsyte.blogspot.com/

Ripe Hour

(Here is a piece I clipped from a newspaper many years ago. It's still beautiful and true. The writer is not indentified.)

After a humid August day when a hot sun has pressed heat on the land, there comes that poignant hour between dusk and darkness when one can feel Year's ripeness.

Time is sliding downhill. Now the shorter days and longer periods of darkness mean that Nature is hastening toward the time of maturity.

When the sun is low above the mountain rim and shadows have started to thicken in the valleys, there is an interlude when one can feel the ripeness. Perhaps it is psychological; perhaps it is man who is in tune with the Great Symphony of the seasons.

But when the countryman walks his acres at day's end in the eighth month, he feels he can sense the ripeness.

Ripeness is a cumulative process. Countless small insects and plants have finished their life cycles earlier in the season. Now it is the beginning of the ripening hour for field crops and fruits.

Stand beside a cornfield on an August evening when the brooding silence is like a blanket and you may think you hear the corn grow. A man cannot hear apples swell nor acorns grow in their saucers, but he knows as he looks at them that growth is occurring and ripeness coming.

This it has been since plants took their places on our earth. Seeds sprout in the magic of humus; they grow to maturity and insure the continuance of the species.

Life goes in its ordained cycle. The Master Planner decrees that after the time of growth there is ripeness. The ripeness of an August evening is a meaningful lesson.

It is not sad. It is part of life.

Mementos From The Past

Yesterday Leroy was sent to Ephrata for something so while he was down there he stopped at the place where I was born and took some pictures of the bare spot where the house used to be. This is how it looks now.

The barn is still standing but the big old tree that was in front of the house is gone and there is an empty hole where the house was. Some of the limestone rocks that had been used to build the cellar wall were still scattered around in the hole. Leroy asked one of the construction workers if he could have a few of them as mementos and was given permission to take anything he wanted. He brought a few small rocks home and we used them to form a short path in a flower bed behind the house. The most ordinary objects become precious when they are the only visible things that are left.

"Save a few mementos from your past

or how will you prove it wasn't all a dream."

Runs Like a Deere

Last evening Leroy came in from the garage all excited and with shining eyes. The antique Novo engine he bought in February was running! It did not run when he bought it at an auction and he did not know what it would cost to get it going. He started by taking out the cherry seeds some rodents had stuffed in the muffler and kept tinkering with it. He spent a lot of time but not another dime to get it running.

Since he takes me out of state and patiently walks cemeteries with me to find people I am seeking, the least I could do in return was walk down to the garage to hear the engine run and share his victory. It ran like a top and really does have the sound of an old John Deere. He bought it for that sound and now can actually hear it. The next step is getting it mounted on the frame of the scale model John Deere B he is building from scrap parts of this and that. It may take another year or two but someday he'll get it together and drive it out of the garage.

Empty Nest Trial

I got an email Saturday evening from my niece, Bethanie, saying Gerald had safely arrived at her home in La Source, Haiti, and she had fed him a pizza supper. After two days of traveling to get there, I am guessing he could use a Sunday day of rest before he starts helping her in the clinic this morning.

Meanwhile, back at the ranch I have already noticed the difference one less person makes in a household. The dishes of food I cooked yesterday were pitifully small and this morning's laundry was three measly loads. A few of Gerald's items were in the wash but there will be none on Thursday which is my normally my second wash day of the week. It will hardly be worth washing more than once a week but we don't have enough of some things to make it that long.

I remember the empty feeling when I shipped Gerald off to kindergarten and was alone in the house for the first time after twenty years of having preschoolers underfoot. It took me about three days to get used to it. But this is different. Some of our friends have been empty nesters for many years. We have been blessed to have children (or at least one child) in the house for over 40 years. I can stand an empty nest for two weeks but I'm glad it's not permanent.

Stauffer or Male Genes?

Several months ago Gerald got a passport and bought a ticket to fly to Haiti today. He is flying from Washington DC to Miami this evening where my brother Merle will meet him. They will share a motel room in Miami and fly to Port au Prince tomorrow morning. Merle speaks Creole and will shepherd him through Haitian customs. Someone will be there to pick up Gerald and take him north to La Souce where Merle's daughter, Bethanie, runs a clinic for Christian Aid Ministries. Merle will go south to Cadiac to have a seminar. He will leave Haiti on August 13 but Gerald will stay until 19th. He is scheduled to return to Washington DC at 12:45 a.m. on August 20--provided everything is on schedule, which it very well may not be.

Gerald will be helping Bethanie in the clinic while he is there. Nursing in a third-world country will be quite a switch from the high-tech 900 bed hospital where he currently works. I'm sure it will be a good experience for him and am glad he could go. It also helps that he has paid vacation days.

Since we have Leroy's company picnic this evening, Gerald asked one of his friends to take him to the airport and we will pick him up when he comes back. He worked from 6 p.m. last night to 6 a.m. this morning and got home around 7. He was going to take a nap but decided he better pack first. Good idea! Next thing I know he takes off and is gone until around 11. I'm pacing around at home wondering what is keeping him. Finally he comes back with a bunch of WalMart bags. He had to go shopping for supplies before he could pack!

And then, "Oh yes! I have to go to the bank yet and pay my bills." So he takes off again for the bank. While he is gone the friend shows up to take him to the airport. He is not only not at home but has not packed anything yet. Finally, about the time he said he wanted to leave, he starts packing. And then he needs to get a shower yet, write down some phone numbers, and . . . and . . . and . . .

I needed to do the weekly shopping today but decided right away this morning I am not going anywhere until he is packed and off. I don't care if he is almost 26, he still needs a mom at times like this. I didn't live with him 26 years without learning anything!

He knew months ago he was leaving today, so it was no surprise. Why did he wait until this morning to start packing? And worse, do his shopping? He did start making a list of things to pack on Monday, but nothing was actually put in a travel bag until a few minutes before the time he said he wanted to leave. I would have been having a fit if that had been me. I hate last-minute cramming to get things done.

So where does the procrastination come from? Is it from his Stauffer genes or is it just a guy thing?

Icon of Berks County

Darrin Youker answers questions about Berks County in his column, You Ask Youker, in the Reading Eagle newspaper. Below is today's question and his answer. I don't endorse the pantheistic worship of this tree but how many counties have a 400 year-old tree, still alive and growing?

Q: What are the meaning and the story behind the Sacred Oak in Oley Township?

A: She's a little out of place here in the Oley Valley. Towering 80 feet tall, with a crown of gnarled branches that arches over the forest floor, and a girth of 20 feet, the Sacred Oak of Oley is one massive tree.

Truth be told, she does not belong in Berks County. A yellow oak, and the second largest of its kind in the United States, the Sacred Oak is not native to this area. No one knows for sure how long the Sacred Oak has stood in Oley, but experts estimate the tree is at least 400 years old. There's no way of knowing how the oak got here. Reading Eagle reader Emily Yoder-Scheider had heard bits and pieces about the Sacred Oak but wanted to know its significance to Berks County.

Dating back to Native American times, when the Lenapes were the only people living here, the oak was revered. According to legend, a chief prayed to the tree, asking the Great Spirit to heal his gravely ill wife. She eventually recovered, said Lorah Hopkins, an Oley Township resident who has studied the tree's history. Warring tribes smoked peace pipes under the tree's massive canopy, Hopkins said. "Either the tree had been such massive size when they got here, or they had received it as a gift," said Hopkins. "It has been here an awful long time."
The mystique of the Sacred Oak has not dimmed over time. Rachel Theis, who owns the land the Sacred Oak sits on, has met hundreds of people from across the country who visit the tree. People have spread their loved one's ashes at the tree, and Native Americans continue to hold ceremonies here.

Theis, who has studied horticulture, believes the tree came from an acorn brought to the area by another Indian tribe. A yellow oak acorn was either dropped here by accident or was part of trade, she said. Theis bought the property three years ago and has become the tree's caretaker. Years of neglect had left the oak slowly dying. Trees were growing up in the oak's canopy, choking its growth. "This is a field tree, not one that belongs in a forest," she said. Theis cleared out more than 50 trees to give the oak some breathing room. It's still hidden in a grove, but the tree is producing acorns - a good sign of health, she said. Theis checks the tree most days and is sometimes surprised by the tokens left behind - stuffed animals, pictures and flowers. On a recent visit, someone had scribbled little messages on a pieces of birch bark.

There is something magical about the oak, maybe its size or the legend that surrounds it. Whatever it is, the Sacred Oak has become an icon of Berks County.

"The sacred oak holds a fascination for people. It has a special aura around it," Hopkins said. "It is more than just a tree."