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Sunday, December 30, 2018

Year In Review

This is the time of year we look back at where we've been and ahead to what is to come. In church this morning we were reminded to look at our spiritual lives to see where we need to improve and then take steps to make that happen. If any of us say we're fine the way we are, we are not being honest. No one is perfect and there is always room for growth in becoming more like Christ. 
All that said, it is still easier to chart the path of our lives by our visible activities than invisible spiritual things. So here is a snapshot of our lives in 2018.


Our first great-grandchild, Avery Lynn Miller, was born January 15.


Some of my cousins came to help quilt on February 21.


On March 5, Leroy marked 45 years of working at Shank Door.


We enjoyed a week of lovely weather in Sarasota, Florida, the end of March. We had not been in Sarasota for 44 years.

 Our bathroom was remodeled the middle of May.

 We took some time out of our family weekend at the cabin in June to take a 5-generation picture.

 In July we went to the Museum of the Bible and the Holocaust Museum in Washington DC.

 On Labor Day we made apple butter at my sister's place and crossed the Susquehanna on the ferry boat on the way home.


We enjoyed  a weekend of camping in Ohio September 21-22, though we wimpy old folks slept in the house.

We went to Holmes County, Ohio, in October where I was scheduled to speak at a writer's conference. An Amish family gave us a place to sleep in an apartment in this building which is used for his business of making horse-drawn farm equipment.


It was a very wet year with record rainfall and a heavy wet snow the middle of November made us wonder what kind of winter we will have.


Leroy celebrated his 75th birthday with a special lunch at work.


We had 34 people at the table and one in the high chair on Christmas Day.
A lot of activity that isn't recorded in pictures took place. Leroy worked on the John Deere tractor he is building from scratch and helped Gerald a couple times with his remodeling project. I crocheted an afghan, wrote a book, a couple articles for the historical society's magazine, a genealogy appendix for the reprinted Jonas Martin Era book, and about a dozen short stories for children. And then there was all the normal daily work of earning a living and keeping the house.
What are we looking forward to in 2019? More of the same everyday life, Lord willing. At this point we have no big trips planned but wild ideas may pop up as we go along. We'll take a day at a time and try to grow spiritually so that when we look back again at the end of the year we can see a difference.

Monday, December 17, 2018

Birthdays

Birthdays come and go. They were exciting at 16 and under, but the higher the numbers go the less exciting or anticipated they are. We've had so many birthdays they're old hat by now and we'd rather ignore than celebrate them. But ignoring birthdays doesn't stop them from coming so you might as well face the facts and admit the truth.
My birthday and Leroy's are just three days apart, on the 14th and 17th. However, he is four years older than me. Every time the numbers rolled over to start a new decade, it didn't seem as bad because he was four years ahead of me.  This year he got a kick out of telling people that we had our first date when I was 17 and now we turned the numbers around. If you remember your grade school math, you can figure out what number he reached today.
Although we had nothing to do with when we were born, it is convenient for a couple tightwads like us to have our birthdays close together. We usually have a gift card or two for a restaurant and use one to celebrate both our birthdays on one card. In addition, having December birthdays makes it convenient to give each other a gift that serves for both birthday and Christmas. We both prefer to give and get gifts that are practical and useful rather than luxury items, although that has happened occasionally. 
This year it seemed appropriate to recognize Leroy's birthday in a special way so we made plans for an office party. I was working on making five pies this morning when he left for work: apple, cherry crumb, pumpkin, shoofly, and lemon meringue. 


Gene ordered eight pizzas and I took chips, drink, the pies and ice cream in to the office at noon. It was a special treat to have lunch with my husband and son. He is celebrated and officially 75. I can hardly believe that number! But facts are facts and we are very blessed to have all these years together.

Tuesday, December 4, 2018

The Welsh Mountain

Anyone who is familiar with the Welsh Mountain south of New Holland, Pennsylvania, has probably heard stories of the Buzzard Gang of outlaws who lived there. The notorious members of the Buzzard Gang were brothers who grew up in the Welsh Mountains, raised by a single mother who lost her husband in the Civil War. Of the six boys raised by Mary Buzzard, three of them, Abe, Isaac and Jacob, had the most run-ins with the law. 
Abe, by far, was the ringleader, but his brothers were equally wild. Another brother, Martin, served 16 years in prison for shooting a farmer in the head during a botched robbery, although the elderly farmer survived. In and out of prison for most of their lives, the brothers terrorized communities throughout the region with robberies, gun battles and a string of thefts too numerous to count. 
Back in 1883, the Buzzard Boys organized the largest prison break in Lancaster County, taking advantage of lax security to free more than a dozen prisoners. At times, there were bounties out for Abe Buzzard that were larger than those offered for Western outlaw Jesse James. Abe was shot several times in gun battles, but he survived those encounters. Despite his outlaw ways, the end came quietly for Abe, who died in 1935 at age 84 in his home in Reading. 
The Buzzard Gang was not the first or only outlaw gang to live on the Welsh Mountain. It had a reputation for their type long before they were born.
The mountain reminded the Welsh people of their homeland and they named it the Welsh Mountain. When they settled in the area in the early 1700s, Indians still lived on the mountain. It was sold out from under them which, of course, did not sit well with them. How would you like it if someone came to your house, claimed it and sold it to someone else? 
Black slaves and white indentured servants who escaped ran to the Welsh Mountain. The Indians helped them hide from their masters. The three races mixed on the Welsh Mountain and produced a Tri-racial group of descendants that lived in crude huts. They made it clear they wanted to be left alone, fiercely defending their freedom with vicious dogs and guns. 
An article in the Philadelphia Gazette in 1790 warned travelers on the State road near Gap in Lancaster County that they were liable to be attacked by "Green's Banditti." The leader of the band was identified a burly black man, Thomas Green, who had control of the mountains. A few years later he died in an attack on a waggoner but his wife and family survived and perpetuated the name and family tradition.
In 1898 the Mennonite church established an industrial mission on the Welsh Mountain in an attempt to evangelize the people and provide a way for them to earn an honest living instead of begging and stealing. While their intentions were noble, generations of hardscrabble living on the mountain was not easily changed to the German work ethic of the mission's founders. The industrial part of the mission was not a stunning success and the residents of the mountain largely continued in their lifestyle.
In 1899, Cal Green was the leader of the black outlaw gang on the Welsh Mountain. She was a descendant of Thomas Green and fiercely defended their territory with guns and vicious dogs. At great peril, Leslie Gilliams managed to interview a few residents on the mountain and photograph the huts in which they lived. A report of his adventure was published in The Wide World Magazine, Vol. IV, Oct. 1899-Mar. 1900; p.366-371.
Today, the Welsh Mountain has been tamed. The industrial mission evolved into a home for low-income elderly. The outlaws are gone and their huts have been replaced with comfortable homes.  A paved road crosses the ridge that once was dense forest. It is safe to drive across the mountain in the dark without fear of being attacked by bandits. 


Thursday, November 22, 2018

It's Not Fair


      We have so much to be thankful for in this country. I feel guilty when I hear about so much suffering in many other parts of the world. Why should I have such a comfortable life when other people are hungry and cold? Why have so many people been driven from their homes through no fault of their own and had their lives and families destroyed? It's not fair that they should have so little while I have so much. We have not been blessed to indulge ourselves. We can't fix all the inequality in the world but we can share what we have with those in need. 
      Why was I born in a land where there is freedom of worship while others are persecuted for the same faith? Why was I born into a Christian family that made it easy for me to learn about Jesus and the way of salvation while millions live in spiritual darkness and never heard the name of Jesus? It's not fair that I have had the opportunities and they had none. I am humbled to be so blessed.
     Today, as we gather in houses of worship and around tables loaded with food, give God the credit He deserves. All we are and have comes from Him. Happy Thanksgiving!

Tuesday, November 13, 2018

Life and Death

Last week was unusual in the life of our congregation. We had two ladies pass away a day apart on November 2 and 3. Then last week we had four days in a row of either a viewing or funeral. As a result, our revivals which had been scheduled for that week were canceled. Although both ladies had terminal illnesses and their deaths were expected, it is still a reality check when it happens and the person is gone forever.
Today I am remembering our son Steve who left us unexpectedly 24 years ago. He was 18 and would be 43 today. I can't quite imagine how he would look by now for he is forever 18 in my memory. Out of sight does not equal out of mind. Although he is no longer with us here, he will live in our hearts as long as we live. 
Solomon said, "love is as strong as death." I would say it is stronger than death for death cannot end love. First Corinthians 13 says love is greater than faith and hope because love is eternal and goes on after faith and hope are no longer needed. 
I have reached my "three score years and ten" so I know there are more years behind me than ahead of me. Because the future is hidden from us, we go on living as usual and the thought of our own death seems somewhere out there in the distant future. We are busy living and can easily ignore the fact that life is a terminal condition. Sooner or later, each of us will reach our last day on earth. The only thing that will matter then is what we have done with Jesus. If He is our Lord and Savior, we already have eternal life and death is merely a transition from earthly life into His presence forever. Death does not end life. And someday death itself will die.
"The last enemy that shall be destroyed is death. But thanks be to God, which giveth us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ." (1Cor. 15:26,57).
John Donne said it this way:
Death, be not proud
though some have called thee
mighty and dreadful,
for thou art not so.
For those whom thou thinkest
thou dost overthrow
die not, poor death,
nor yet canst thou kill me.
One short sleep past
we wake eternally
and death shall be no more. 
Death, thou shalt die.

Tuesday, November 6, 2018

A November Day

I posted this nine years ago, but it's worth repeating on this dreary November day.


Changing of Seasons
The dawn was made of smoky purples, grays and reds. It was like the background music for a movie about the Creation. Although the mood was somber, it was nothing you could really put your finger on. The colors were subtly intermingled and changed rapidly from one to the other and to mixtures of two or all three.
The day, according to the calendar, would be a November day and, after the nature of the brute, hardly anybody knew how it would all come out. It began brilliantly after its dawn had dissipated and the sun struck the east sides of houses and trees with a brightness that was altogether foreign to dusky November.
In this eleventh month of the year Nature's patience is running out. She is tired after having produced the bounty that fills barns and freezers and quart jars to feed animals and people through the winter ahead. Fatigue makes her fretful and the weather she brews in fit for neither man nor beast.
Sometimes, as in this year, there is snow before we are psychologically or physical prepared for it. Consider, if you require evidence, the bewilderment that struck us as we looked out upon a white world at a time it should have been green. Snow fence segments lie, still rolled, in fields and there was the unusual experience of the maples, spectacular in yellow---trimmed in white.
November is notable for its cold, dismal rains that slant into the faces of pedestrians and for sleet that dresses them and the objects of their culture in glassy sheaths. Its winds rattle doors and moan softly about the corners of houses in a tune-up for winter. They will become more proficient with rehearsals and, by January, should be in excellent voice.
Sometime in mid-morning, long after the somber dawn had faded, a thick mass of forbidding clouds began to move out of the northwest in a line that stretched from horizon to horizon. There was no turbulence within the mass and its passage across the heavens was orderly, almost sedate.
The mass was not of a consistent thickness. In it were brighter areas of thinner cloud. Some parts of the mass moved a bit faster than others and in some areas had compressed the gray bulk ahead of them into formal rows until they resembled a squeezed accordion.
Torn By The Wind
Immediately preceding this darkening curtain across the overturned bowl of the sky was a wide line of thin, white cloud, ragged and torn on its leading edge by the winds. The larger mass retained its white border until there was nothing left of blue but a wide sliver that stretched across the southeastern sky.
The advancing clouds consumed the sliver in the end and the sky was gray from horizon to zenith over 360 degrees of its earth boundary. In the northwest, where it had all begun, the sky was a leaden gray curtain of uninterrupted gloom. This curtain was to bring a very brief spate of raindrops in mid-afternoon.
The countryside seemed moody and depressed under its heavy cloud cap. Farms appeared deserted, although, in Lancaster County, it must never be assumed that an absence of visible people means idleness--the work goes ahead inside buildings. Snow lay in patches about these buildings and there remained a light frosting on portions of their roofs. Where the blanket of snow on fields and meadows had melted or was very thin, strips of emerald green broke the monotony of adjoining brown fields.
There were still traces of color in the foliage of a woodlot that climbed a hill behind a snowy cornfield. The whiteness in the foreground accentuated the dim color in the woods that had been so brilliant a short week ago.
Most of the trees had lost their leaves. To the sycamores the absence of their crowns does not seem as great a loss as it does to other woody plants. The sycamores, with their whitish limbs exposed, are now the most spectacular and easily recognized of all the trees in the woods.
In the upper elevations where there was more snow originally and where more of it had remained there was the feeling that Thanksgiving was just around the next bend in the road. Warm feelings that accompanied this thought were supported by a thin column of smoke that rose from the chimney of a farmhouse where, in a few days, a turkey will be roasting in the oven. The smoke curled away from a northwesterly breeze that was not yet a wind.
A flock of starlings, perhaps the homeliest birds on earth, flew crazily overhead and landed clumsily in a field. Further on, for contrast, a pair of cock pheasants, bursting with pride at the glory of their own plumage, stood by the road and haughtily surveyed the landscape.
A lone gull made his way down the course of the river and disappeared into the gathering gloom of late afternoon. The surface of the Susquehanna was troubled by a breeze and its reflections of the hills opposite were indistinct, but not without a faint hint of color. Patches of snow shone among wooded areas on the tops of the York County hills. It seemed later than November over there.
There was no indication of it in the west when the day was over. The sky simply became more leaden and darker and evening settled in, chill and comfortless, around houses where lights came on. It had taken all day for it to become November.

Friday, October 19, 2018

Milestone

We reached another milestone today. It is fifty years since we moved into this house. 
We were married in July 1967 and lived in a rented house for fifteen months while we bought a little over an acre of land and built a house on it. 


The carpet had not been installed in the living room when we moved in and the lawn and landscaping were not done. The upstairs was one big attic room. On the main floor were two bedrooms, kitchen, living room, bathroom, and laundry, plus an attached one-car garage. We had one three-month-old son and very little furniture. Walls were white plaster and decorating was limited to a calendar on the wall. Multiple bathrooms and central air were luxuries we didn't even consider.


Leroy worked all through the next spring and summer to seed the lawn, one section at a time. I took the picture below after we had grass, shrubs, and a tree in the front yard. They are so small you can hardly see them!


We had a lot of ideas for improvements to the place and it took almost fifty years to get them all done. Maybe that's why we never moved. As the family grew, we added a bedroom upstairs and later a second bedroom and a half-bath. That floor was crammed full with five boys. Our bedroom was downstairs and our daughter had the second bedroom.
As the years passed we built a two-bay garage beyond the right of the attached garage. When the boys were teenagers another two bays were added.


We also added a patio behind the garage end of the house and sometime later turned it into a sun room by enclosing it. Several years later it was finally finished when tiles were laid on the floor. This place was a work in progress, doing things only as needed and we could afford it.


The basement was unfinished with cement block walls and concrete floor. That was fine since it was a rec room. We had a wood stove down there which heated the basement and main floor. The concrete floor was perfect for the children to ride tricycles and roller skate. Leroy hung some swings from the floor joists and the picnic table was stored down there for the winter. In the 1990s we got rid of the wood stove and installed an oil furnace for heat. The children were growing up and our tribe was increasing as grandchildren were added, so the time had come to finish the basement and turn it into a family room for parties and Christmas dinners.



One of my dreams had been to have a sewing room in the second bedroom on the main floor. I thought I would spend my time sewing when I was an old lady. By the time that room was no longer needed for a bedroom, things had changed. I was spending more time writing than sewing so it became an office. We had an Amish man custom-build a desk to fit the room.


Some non-essential items on the "someday" list were adding shutters for trim and blacktopping the driveway. They eventually happened and we chalked off the final one when the driveway was finished last year.

Of course, there were a lot of other changes and upkeep that happened through the years. Wooden windows were replaced with vinyl ones, the roof was replaced, the garden expanded to cover almost a third of an acre and kept shrinking as the children established their own homes.


This place has served us well and could tell a lot of stories. It is the only home our children ever knew. God has been good and we are very blessed.