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Thursday, January 28, 2021

Evolution of the Telephone

  When I was growing up in Lancaster County, we had a rotary phone setting on the desk. It was a party line which meant several of the neighbors shared our line. The phone had a different ring for each family so we would know if the call was for us. I don't remember exactly what our ring was but it was something like one long ring and two shorts, or one short and one long, etc. We had a simple number of RE3-9098. RE stood for the Republic exchange and it later was changed to 733-9098. There was no area code until perhaps the late 1950s. To make a call outside of the local area we had to dial O to connect with an operator. We had to give our number to make the call and then were charged by the minute. We didn't make long toll calls because it ran up the monthly bill pretty quickly.
   The phone Leroy's family had when they moved to Berks County in 1953 was more antiquated. The phone had no dial. The wooden box fastened to the wall had a crank on the side. To make a call, they turned the crank which alerted the operator who sat at a switchboard. They gave her the number they wanted to call and she made the connection. Their number was 103. If someone called them, the operator would make the phone ring twice in short succession. And of course, it was a party line shared with several neighbors. Any of them could pick up and listen in to the conversation.
 

  We got married in 1967 and rented a house for a year while we built a new one. When we moved in, we had a rotary phone mounted on the wall above the desk in the living room. It was a party line shared with the neighbors. Who could afford the luxury of an expensive private line? Talking on the phone meant sitting at the desk for the duration of the call. At one point we had a longer cord attached so I could reach further and catch unruly children while on the phone. Only local calls were included in the plan so "pay calls" were only made when necessary and kept short. Direct dialing arrived so we no longer had to speak to an operator to make a call. It was necessary to dial 1 before the number when making long distance calls (out of the local area). Our first phone now hangs on the basement wall with the other antiques on display.


   We moved up a step when we replaced the rotary phone with a push button phone that sat on the desk. We hung onto our party line as long as we could. At the end, there was only one other person on our line and they were not close neighbors. Party lines were discontinued and private lines were no more expensive luxuries. 


  Our next upgrade in a phone was one with an answering machine that sat on the desk. Two cordless phones were included which were kept in the bedroom and on the sink. Now we could walk around while on the phone and pick up messages from people who called when we were not home.



 When cell phones came into common use, the company where Leroy worked provided him with a cell phone. They previously had a phone in his truck that worked similar to a two-way. Only one person could talk at a time. When he called, I would have to wait until he stopped talking to reply and vice versa. The cell phone was a great improvement because he could carry it with him and not have to be in the truck to use it. Also, we could carry on a normal conversation. 
   Our youngest sons and Leroy all had cell phones but I did not. I thought I had lived fifty years without one and I didn't need it. But then Leroy said, "You are the only person I can't get ahold of when you're not home. You need to get a cell phone." So I did. My first cell phone had a monthly charge and it was too expensive for not more than I used it. I switched to a cheap, no-frills TracPhone. It is prepaid and serves the purpose very well. At one point I got an upgrade which allowed me to do text messages as well as phone calls. Sending a text message is a slow process. If I want an i, I need to push 4 three times, etc. Texting sends the message using only 30 seconds of the time on the phone and uses less time than making a call. 


   Leroy is planning to retire in a couple weeks and will have to turn in his company cell phone. We are so used to having cell phones it seems like a necessity for us to each have one. There are times when we both need one. For example, we are separated in the store and he can't find me. After using the company smartphone so long, that seemed like a necessity too. It includes all kind of features we never even dreamed of---internet and GPS, plus all kinds of apps, a camera, video chat and more. We had our same phone number since 1968 and didn't want to change it. We bought the new phone on Saturday and this morning our number was switched from the landline to the cell phone. 


   We are now up-to-date with an iPhone. Years ago we used to joke about someday being able to carry a phone in our pocket and/or see people while we talk to them. It's not a joke anymore. It is here. I can only wonder how many more changes we will live to see.
    In case you're wondering, yes, all the phones pictured here are still in our house but only the cell phones are in working order.






Tuesday, January 19, 2021

Only a Dishrag?

 The following little article I wrote was published in Companions in 1981. Someone told me they never forgot this one. I thought perhaps it bears repeating. (Small print added.)


   Of what value is a dishrag anyway? There are more expensive gadgets in my kitchen, but none more versatile or indispensable than my humble dishrag. I have used it to wipe the windowsill at the sink, wash the jelly from a toddler's face, to give extra grip when a stubborn jar refused to open, as well as the daily ordinary dishwashing chores. (and other things not mentioned here)
   My dishrag is often stained by the dirt it works against and gets frequent cleansings itself. Without complaint or hesitation it accepts any job I need it for. It does big or small jobs equally well. It stays in its place on the sink, ready and available when I need it.
  Did I hear you say you sometimes feel like a dishrag? Well, good! God can use more (humble, flexible) dishrags in the church.



Friday, January 15, 2021

Persecution

 I didn't make any New Year resolutions but I did set one goal. I have read parts of the Martyrs' Mirror but never read it through. That's embarrassing. I decided I will read it this year. I'm reading a portion each morning along with my devotional time. It is not easy reading. I can only read a short section at a time and then can't take any more. It is just unbelievable how cruel people can be. The ways Christians were tortured are so gross it turns my stomach. 
The Martyrs' Mirror was written 400 years ago but persecution of Christians has never ceased. It began shortly after Jesus ascended to heaven and continues in 2021. It's easy for us to dismiss it from our minds because we have not experienced this type of treatment in our country. But persecution is very real for Christians in many parts of the world. Here are some statistics:
  • More than 70 million Christians have been martyred in the course of history. More than half were martyred in the 20th century under communist and fascist government (Gordon-Conwell Resources).
  • In the 21st century, roughly 100,000  to 160,000 Christians were killed each year (Gordon-Conwell Resources and World Christian Database, respectively).
  • Roughly 1,093,000 Christians were martyred, worldwide, between 2000 and 2010 (World Christian Database). 
  • The ten countries where Christians face the most extreme persecution are, in order:
  1. North Korea (at the top of the list for 18 years)
  2. Afghanistan
  3. Somalia
  4. Sudan
  5. Pakistan
  6. Eritrea
  7. Libya
  8. Iraq
  9. Yemen
  10. Iran
With the exception of North Korea, all of these countries are predominantly Muslim and in the Middle East and Africa. We can't do much about this persecution but we can pray for the Christians in these countries. As Jesus said, "I have prayed for thee that thy faith fail not." 

Thursday, December 31, 2020

2020 Hindsight

   A whole year has passed since I wrote a blog post on 20/20 Vision on December 30, 2019. We were about to begin a new decade and I wondered what we would find in it. Like many others, we expected life to continue as usual although there would naturally be unknown changes along the way. No one could foresee how life would be turned upside down a quarter of the way through 2020. The enemy was too small to be seen but it spread around the globe and life was disrupted for everyone. We made the best of it and did what we had to do.
  The year started out calmly as I wrote, scrapbooked, and crocheted. In January we put a 1000 piece puzzle together and had no idea we would do a half dozen more before spring came in all its glory. 



  I had a CT scan in February and learned the spot the doctor had been watching on my kidney for several years had grown and was malignant. I was scheduled to have surgery in May but didn't tell anyone. I didn't think it was necessary for people to think about it that long. Besides, we had more exciting news to think about. In February we learned that after waiting nine years a new grandchild was on the way. It was a definite answer to much earnest prayer. "With God nothing is impossible."



  Leroy was off work six weeks after COVID-19 broke out in March. Everything was canceled and church was on livestream from March to June. It was better than nothing but we missed the fellowship.
   Easter came in April but there was no Good Friday or Easter service in church. Leroy went back to working three days per week and we started circulating a bit more. I finished a book I had been working on for a year and a half and sent it to the reviewers. There's still a lot of work before it can be published and I doubt it will be on the market before the end of 2021. I volunteered at the Lancaster Mennonite Historical Society for thirteen years, helping Carolyn Wenger prepare things for the archives. They closed because of the virus and then Carolyn died of cancer in April. It seemed like a good time for me to quit. It's something I wanted to do for a long time before I started and now I gave it up.
  Our children came in May to do some yard work for us. They spread mulch and replaced some overgrown bushes. That day I told them I was scheduled for kidney cancer surgery on May 29. 


  Leroy was not allowed to enter the hospital so he could only drop me off and go home. It turned out to be a more major surgery than the doctor anticipated. I was in the hospital nine days and in rehab another seven days. No visitors were allowed all that time but I could talk to people on the phone. Our sons looked after Leroy, cooking and doing laundry for him. I finally came home on June 16. The good news was that they got all the cancer and I did not need any chemo or radiation. 



  Our daughter came from Ohio and was here for a week. I was grateful for her help. It took me several months to make a full recovery and by then the summer was over. The virus slacked off over summer but things were still canceled all year as we went along. In-person church services resumed in June but with some changes in the routine. Restaurants and other businesses that had been closed on the governor's orders were open again but with safety guidelines. Face masks, hand sanitizer, and social distancing was a part of life in 2020. 
  Like many other things, the annual Berean Meetings in July were canceled. And cancelations continued through August. The summer passed with no Bible school, reunions, trips, or other things that we had always taken for granted as a normal part of life. Our second great-grandchild was born May 14, but due of the circumstances, we did not get to see him until they came in from Ohio in August. Colton Miller was three months old before we saw him in person.



   Schools had been closed since March but opened again in September with some modifications. My newest book of children's stories was released this month and on September 24 the long-awaited granddaughter arrived. Abigail Ruth Stauffer is a dream come true was a bright highlight in a dark and disrupted year.



   As the weather cooled in October, virus cases began to rise again. But the shutdown in the spring had caused so much damage to the economy the governor knew he cannot do it again. At the end of the month our daughter came for another week to help me with some cleaning. We shivered through the outdoor wedding of a grandson on October 30.



   There was plenty of hot air all year with the presidential election taking place in November. President Trump lost the election and made a fool of himself by refusing to concede and trying to overturn the results. I never in my life saw such a poor loser in an election. 
  Leroy's brother's wife died with the virus after being in the hospital two weeks and I also lost one of my old friends the same week. 
   We had a most unusual Thanksgiving dinner. We planned to have the traditional turkey meal with one of our sons and his family, but he had a sore throat that morning. Any other year we wouldn't have taken that so seriously but out of caution we decided to exchange portions of the food we had prepared and eat at our own tables. We visited by Zoom on our computers while we ate.
  The virus could not stop Christmas from coming in December. I did most of my Christmas shopping online this year and was finished the beginning of the month. My daughters-in-law came to bake cookies, I mailed cards and letters, and wrapped gifts as usual. Our children and grandchildren were here on Christmas day. We wore face masks and kept hand sanitizer handy. The only ones missing were an Ohio grandson, his wife, and two children---our great-grandchildren. 



   The last week of the month one of Leroy's old buddies also died with the virus. Our "youth group" is leaving this world for a better one at an alarming rate.
  Tonight we reach the end of this unforgettable year. Looking back at this year, there was a mixture of joys and sorrows as always but also unexpected things on a scale we never imagined. The virus rages on with no end in sight. We are thankful we have escaped so far. Only God knows how long it will go on. We can look toward the future and the new year of 2021 with the confidence that God is in control and we are safe in Him no matter what happens. 




Friday, December 18, 2020

Controversial Issues

 The election is finally over and that fuss has died down. I was exceedingly weary of and disgusted with all the political posts on social media. But while that has faded out, other controversial subjects continue to swirl on social media.
People are posting things for and against wearing a mask, for and against vaccines. Each side presents "convincing evidence" for their position. How are we supposed to know who is right in these completely opposite positions?  
I've come to the conclusion that the only thing I learn from the things people post is what they think. If someone is against vaccines, that is what they will post. Same for masking or unmasking, voting in elections, abortion, sexual abuse, racism, and other controversial issues. Social media gives people a virtual soap box from which to shout out their opinions.
I know what I think on these subjects but there is no point in me posting anything on social media about it. If people do not agree with me, what I post will either be ignored or start an argument. I got sucked into that a couple times before I learned to keep my mouth shut.  What I say won't change their minds and they won't change mine. The things people are wound up over will eventually dissolve and they will go on to something else.
In all fairness, there are some advantages to social media. It helps us keep in contact with family and friends who live far from us. In an instant, I can hear from my niece in Bangladesh and see pictures from the refugee camp where she works. I can get the news from the lives of my brothers in Canada and Guatemala without waiting or needing a stamp. It's a great improvement over the snail mail we used years ago. 
Social media is like all other forms of communication. These things are not wrong in themselves. It's how you use it that makes it right or wrong. 





Tuesday, December 8, 2020

Newborn at Christmas

 Yesterday I had the privilege of babysitting Abigail while her mother did some shopping. It's been a long time since I had a baby in the house, but a mother never forgets how to care for an infant. 



Neither have I forgotten some of the thoughts I had the Christmases I had a new baby, especially those who were born in the fall and were still tiny and helpless at Christmas. Holding a newborn at Christmas helps to bring the true meaning of Christmas to life. This was even more so yesterday when I held this long-awaited little girl who was born in answer to prayer. The Jews had waited thousands of years for God to answer their prayers to fulfill His promise to send the Messiah. And when He did, they couldn't believe it because they were not expecting the Messiah to come in the form of a tiny newborn Baby.
This morning I spent nearly an hour hunting a poem I remembered from those Christmases years ago when I had a newborn. I finally found it in a yellowed paperback book of meditations for new mothers. This was written at a time when mothers (like me) did not have nurseries but put the baby in a crib beside their own bed.

Within the crib that stands beside my bed
A little form in sweet abandon lies
And as I bend above with misty eyes
I know how Mary's heart was comforted.

O world of Mothers! blest are we who know
The ecstasy--the deep God-given thrill
That Mary felt when all the earth was still
In that Judean starlight long ago!
Anne P. L. Field (1874-1947)

Monday, November 16, 2020

The Spoiled King

There was once a great king who was very wealthy. He was the most powerful man in the land and was always able to buy anything his heart desired.
One day the king saw a lovely vineyard and decided to buy it. But the owner refused to sell at any price. The king had never in his life been in a situation where he could not buy what he wanted. He stormed and pouted like a spoiled child. He lay on his bed and refused to eat.
Determined to get what he wanted, the king began plotting to unlawfully seize the vineyard. When he managed to do it, God passed judgment upon him. This story is in 1 Kings 21 but you can read the modern version in today's newspaper.


If you want your children to grow up to be men and women of integrity, don't give them everything they want. Make them work for it or learn to do without. And when they lose at playing a game, teach them that being a good sport and gracious loser is more important than winning. If they don't learn these things when they are young they will make fools of themselves when they are adults.